I wont let my daughter get pregnant for another man outside marriage – Waje


I wont let my daughter get pregnant for another man outside marriage – Waje

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Aituaje Iruobe popularly known as Waje had an interview with Genevieve Magazine. In the interview she talked about the tiresome role of being a single mother and how she will ensure her daughter Emerald never experience single motherhood. Here are exerpt from the interview:

“I’m a mother but I know where to draw the line.

“It is because I don’t want her to make the same mistakes I made. I feel like some of the decisions I made was because I was raised differently.

“Our parents taught us what they knew as the truth, but what you know as the truth might not be the truth. Another thing is that parents do not tell their children why certain behaviors should be avoided.”

“For example, parents say, “don’t drink because I said so” not, “don’t drink because it is bad for your health”; but I’m learning that for the children of this age, you have to tell them all the reasons why they should not do certain things.

“While my daughter was growing up, I took up the reward method; you do good, you get good. There was a consequence for every action.”

Waje went on saying, “There were many times I really prayed that The One will quicken his steps to make things easier. It did get too much when it is time to pay rent, school fees, and other miscellaneous expenses.


“I had my own share of pillow cries and made sure she doesn’t see it. Sometimes she could come asking, “Why didn’t you and my Dad stay together?” And, when I first moved to Lagos, I couldn’t afford to have my daughter with me because I didn’t have a house; I was squatting with someone. There was a time I saw her like twice a year.


“There were times she cried, mummy I want to come and live with you, but I couldn’t afford it till 2011. Yet looking at my daughter, I will be honest that she is a blessing.
“And the blessing outweighs the challenges. I have learnt to be patient, more accommodating and to pay attention to details as a mom. I have also learnt to map out my priorities, because there are some things I simply cannot do as a mom,” she added, noting that her baby-daddy wasn’t ready at the time she took in.

According to her, “I was young. He was young. Our relationship now is very cordial. We respect each other.

“He has not always been a part of my daughter’s life until recently.”

“He met her last year. When she was quite young he showed interest but my fear was that he won’t be consistent. I didn’t want a situation where he would come in this year and leave the next.”

“So I had to wait till I was sure that he would be there.”

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Lol that’s what every Mother want, buh what can you do when your daughter decides to go astray…


lol…you just pray that it doesn’t happen or you just cry and keep beefing the guy that turn your daughter to Rihanna