Actor I.K Ogbonna replies American relationship expert who called his advice to ladies, stupid
Days ago, Ogbonna took to his page to advice ladies against acting the wife role when they have no insurance/ assurance. However, popular American and elationship expert, Terryderon, called the advice, stupid (pictured above).
Ogbonna has now replied him. In a post on his page, he said: “My Father once said “When a man meets a woman he already knows what he wants from/with her”. That being said.
A man won’t always tell you but he will definitely ALWAYS show you the intention he has towards you. Women, on the other hand, more often than not see what they wish to see thereby making excuses for the Guy and whatever shitty treatment they might get from him.
The society we find ourselves has subconsciously placed the men as “the shot callers” because the African woman is not expected to propose to the man. A man should be honest enough to define the nature of relationship he has with a woman, because some ladies do wish to settle down as they are biologically limited when it comes to childbirth and all, this is not saying “desperation” in anyway and it’s not nice to give someone fake hopes.
But at the same time ladies, listen carefully: In order to protect yourself from men wasting your precious time, my sisters, you need to LOVE YOURSELF enough not to settle for an incomplete “deal”, excuses, and not to settle for small piece of attention all because you are lonely.
A man that truly wants you will show you and the world around you that you are his woman and you won’t need to force it, guess, doubt, wander, no matter the circumstances. With all due respect Terryderon, just like you rightly said the dating culture for the Africans and Americans is different but regardless a Woman’s need is UNIVERSAL.”